Marnie's Posts, {Life}

{Life} Your Walk Talks.

Written By: Marnie Pouget

 

Jon Glock, currently Vice President for Advancement at Emmaus Bible College in Dubuque, Iowa, then a Youth Ministries Worker in Murfreesboro, Tennessee came to our youth retreat as the guest speaker. His passion for youth and his captivating preaching style had our attention from the get-go. He spoke with a bit of a southern drawl and one of his phrases has stuck with me over the last 17 or so years. “Your walk talks and your talk talks but your walk talks louder than your talk talks.” (try saying that 10x fast!)

It can be a tongue twister for sure but don’t let the truth of it get twisted in your mind. I am sure you have heard another version of this truth. “Your actions speak louder than your words.” What you do matters.

If we claim to know Christ and the power of His resurrection, if we are willing to speak out about our faith and our convictions, then how we live is important. It is the witness that what we do lines up with what we say.

The apostles and disciples preached Christ crucified. They shared the gospel, the good news but even Peter was publicly rebuked by Paul. We read in Galatians 2, that Peter was fine eating with the Gentiles until certain Jews came along and then he refrained and separated himself from the Gentiles. Peter knew that the Gospel had been freely given to both Jew and Gentile and yet he was not consistently living that out. Paul sums it up saying, “I have been crucified with Christ and I no longer live, but Christ lives in me. The life I now live in the body, I live by faith in the Son of God, who loved me and gave himself for me. I do not set aside the grace of God, for if righteousness could be gained through the law, Christ died for nothing!”

I like how Paul puts it in Philippians 3:16 “Only let us live up to what we have already attained.”

We have been given the free gift of salvation. The chains of sin have been broken. The power of death has been defeated. Then why do we continue to live like we are still in bondage? At what point do we allow the fruit of the Spirit to abound in our lives? The New Testament letters are full of lists of what we should be “putting away” and what we should be “holding on to”. Why do we continue to live like these instructions don’t exist? Or maybe we think they don’t apply to us.

Romans 8:29 says “For those God foreknew he also predestined to be conformed to the image of his Son, that he might be the firstborn among many brothers and sisters.” When do we stop holding tightly onto our own image and surrender to being conformed to the image of his Son, our Savior? This proverb well known in Christian circles and is commonly attributed to St. Francis of Assisi

“Preach the Gospel at all times. Use words if necessary.”

The truth is that St. Francis said no such thing and many Christians are up in arms about this saying. I have read articles and heard preachers denounce this notion emphatically. While the quote cannot be rightfully attributed to anyone, I am not sure that it is completely without merit.

We are called to preach the gospel. It’s the great commission. Jesus commands it. Therefore, words are indeed necessary. However, if our actions don’t follow the words we preach then we are guilty of hypocrisy. In Matthew 23:3 Jesus gives this warning about the Pharisees “But do not do what they do, for they do not practice what they preach.”

It is good to note that the followers of Jesus did not name themselves “Christians”. Acts tells us that when Barnabas returned to Antioch, he saw the evidence of the grace of God in the followers there. It was here in Antioch that believers were first called Christians. The people recognized them as different, identified them with Christ and named them accordingly.

This common question is worthy of consideration. “If you were tried in a court of law for being a Christian, would there be enough evidence to convict you?” Ponder that for a few moments. Weigh it out. What’s your answer?

Paul encourages, in 1 Peter 2:12 “Live such good lives among the pagans that, though they accuse you of doing wrong, they may see your good deeds and glorify God on the day he visits us.”

“In everything set them an example by doing what is good. In your teaching show integrity, seriousness and soundness of speech that cannot be condemned, so that those who oppose you may be ashamed because they have nothing bad to say about us.” Titus 2:7

The Bible is full of instructions to believers on how to live. I imagine if how we lived wasn’t that important, the Holy Spirit would have left sections of the New Testament out. But he didn’t therefore we should take them seriously. We are called to be prepared to give an answer for the hope that we have (1Peter 3:15). The call to preach the gospel wasn’t a suggestion. It was a command. But whether you like it or not, we are called to live the gospel. The power of God and the evidence of His transforming work in our lives should be visible. Tangible. Unmistakable.

How is your talk? And your walk?

Until Next Time,

~Marnie

Joceline's Posts, {Life}

{Life} Pause.

Written By: Joceline Sweeney

PAUSE

I unfortunately haven’t heeded the advice I’m giving you today. I have learned the hard way of over piling my platter too full, that some days I could just scream, and sadly I often have.

We are all at different stages in our lives, but I know this post can be applied to you not matter what.

This is difficult for me to admit, but I hate saying no! I know I’m not the only one, as there are quite a few books available to help people like me and a few others who are willing to admit it! I would rather just say yes and a possibly grumble about it afterwards then to hurt someone’s feelings or to have them upset with me. I have done this for years! Take on something that was important, a worthy cause, a God thing and push myself literally past my physical and emotional limitations and then turn around and take it out on my family. Sad. When you are a kind and generous person you see needs everywhere and honestly sometimes feel it is your responsibility to fulfill them all.

I’m here to tell you… Pause.

I used to wear a crown of busy on my head, I still so often want to wear it, as it is like an old hat, easy to slip on. Wearing it to prove to myself and others I could handle it all with a smile on my face.

I sat down a few years ago and wrote a list of things that were on mine and my husband’s schedules and I was shocked and ashamed that I had let it get this bad. Seven pages single spaced of the things we were both currently involved in. I wanted to cry. No wonder why I felt completely overwhelmed all the time, like I could never catch up. I wish before I had let it get this out of control, I had taken the time to… Pause.

I sat and talked with my husband about what I had written and discovered, I began to cry as I didn’t know what to do. Everything that was on my platter was important, a worthy cause and even God things. He sat and listened to me as I poured my heart out, asking him how I could possibly go on living like this, being so completely overwhelmed and utterly miserable.

He asked such a simple question which stopped me in my tracks, “What do you want to do?”

I sat and thought about it for quite a few minutes, with such honesty I wept and answered “I just want to read a bedtime story to Jillianne!”

I knew then that I desperately needed to… Pause.

My heart was aching, being a wife and mom was all I had ever really wanted and I had let mine and other people’s expectations crowed out the very thing I felt I was created to be… a good wife and a loving mom, who read bedtime stories to her children.

I am a huge work in progress as I still like my sparkly crown… but now before I add anything else to my platter, I remember how much joy it brings me to grab a book and read to my youngest daughter.

When life and all its demand are coming at you, faster than you can handle, before you become overwhelmed…Pause.

Until Next Time,

~Joceline

Kerrington's Posts, {Life}

{Life} An Encourager In need…

Written by: Kerrington Sweeney   
Ask anyone, I would be described as “the encourager.” I try my very best, to always stay positive and optimistic. A bright light, in all sorts of crazy situations and a hand stretched out, if help is needed. 

A shoulder to cry on. A voice of wisdom and encouragement. A text away to get instant prayer…that’s just who I was created to be. I am always at a moments notice, ready to give up anything and go without something, to see someone go further in their walk, with Jesus Christ. 

A few months back, I went through a very rough battle season of my life. I was physically attacked by sickness, emotionally drained and spiritually on a desperate searching quest. Searching for something more. Something to quench my never ending thirst of strength, in both my physical, emotional, and spiritual needs. 

Between hospital visits, tons of doctors appointments, many sleepless nights and the horrific daily throwing up sessions for almost an entire month… I had absolutely no strength left. No encouragement to give. I was in a state of lifelessness. Weak, tired, and exhausted. 

“Finally, be strong in the Lord and in the strength of His might.” ~Ephesians 6:10

In those moments, I felt like doing nothing, but drop to my knees and cry for hours. Being on the other end, of having to receive encouragement from others, then having the pleasure of freely giving it. Being that Encourager, in desperate need of my own dose of encouragement and prayer, was not a place I liked to be in. 
The incredible amounts of encouragement and prayers, I so graciously received through that time were each a sincere blessing to my weary heart. My Friends and Family, sent prayers, gifts, flowers, cards, text messages and phone calls. Tearing up just thinking of the amounts of true love and care that was shown to me…

“Come to me, all who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest.” ~Matthew 11:28

There was of course, at least 10,000 reasons I could have complained about my situation. Which yes, I still complained…I’m human! I complained about the terrible physical battle I was fighting, that felt like a never-ending cycle of sickness. In amongst my pain and struggles, I daily challenged myself to find 10,000 reasons to be thankful to The Lord. For He, did not put that attack on my body. He was there to restore, equip, and heal me. 

I just had to simply believe. The battles you may be fighting, the hurts you hold on to, the struggles that are constantly bombarding your everyday life…Give them up. Hand the keys over to God, let Him lock those things out of your life. He has plans for you. I pray, this post was encouraging to you. 

I pray, that you are able to walk away from here today and have the strength to encourage a “Sister” in need today like I once was. Bless you readers! 

Until Next Time, 

~Kerrington 

Life in the Spirit, Rachel's Posts, {Life}

{Life In The Spirit} The Spirit like a Dove.

Written by: Rachel Shaw

Life in the Spirit

Matthew 3:16-17 “And when Jesus was baptized, immediately he went up from the water, and behold, the heavens were opened to him, and he saw the Spirit of God descending like a dove and coming to rest on him”

The Holy Spirit is often illustrated to us as a dove. Within various churches that I have visited, there have been several paintings of Jesus with a dove on his shoulder. I think it’s safe to say that the dove represents the Holy Spirit.

In Matthew 3 at Jesus’ baptism, Scripture says that the Spirit of God descended like a dove. The Holy Spirit has the same characteristics as God. Just as we respect God and all of His authority, we must also do the same for the Spirit because the Spirit is also God. One morning at our church, the pastor told a story about a couple that had just moved into a new cottage. As they settled in, they liked keeping the windows open for the fresh air. Shortly after they moved in they noticed that there was a dove that would sit just outside the window every day. Over time, they made friends with the dove that sits among the tree branches outside their new home. They noticed that every time tension rose in the home from an argument or if they were being loud or disturbing, the dove would fly away. When the peaceful moments returned to the home, the dove flies back to the tree branch next to the couple. As they observed this pattern, they realized that the dove would not adjust to their lifestyle and if they wanted the dove to stay, that they would have to adjust to his.

We can apply the same concept to our lives with the Holy Spirit. The Holy Spirit will not reside inside of us if we live destructive, selfish lives. The Holy Spirit will simply not adjust and get comfortable with our sin. Rather, in order for us to live our lives with the Spirit residing in us, we must be willing to follow God’s will, and to change our lifestyle accordingly. We ought to love the Lord our God, and love other people as He instructed in scripture. It is such a blessing that God has given us instructions throughout scripture on how to live this earthly life to the fullest. It’s an even greater blessing that he has given us the Holy Spirit to guide us through each moment.

Thank you Lord for giving us the wonderful gift of the Holy Spirit. I pray that it resignates inside of each of us that we must change our lifestyle to live in harmony with your Spirit. We commit to a life of following in your footsteps, and to living our lives close to your Spirit. I pray that we draw near to you and you draw near to us.  In Jesus’ name, Amen.

Until Next Time,

~Rachel

Amy's Posts, {Life}

{Life}  Curveball. 

Written by: Amy Gauvin

Hello ladies! My mission to all of you, is to be real and vulnerable with you. I want to speak straight from my heart, as to what God has done in my life. So here we go!
Life throws us curveballs from time to time…some are caught and some we want to just dodge. My sister was thrown a curveball in August of last year, that she just couldn’t dodge. At age 39, she was diagnosed with Stage 3 bladder cancer. It was a very aggressive cancer. In a matter of months, the tumour had quadrupled in size and spread to other organs. She had an extensive surgery in London, in which they removed her bladder, uterus, and ovaries.


They took a part of her intestine, to make a diversion attached it to her ureters and out her stomach so she could empty her kidneys. She has a urostomy bag now. After healing from surgery, she went through 4-months of very intense chemo. I will admit…it was the scariest thing I have ever been through with her…to see my sister in so much pain and all I could do was pray and to trust in God that prayers were being answered! The strength that my sister had to pull through everyday was admirable. She made it to the end of her chemo in April. The minute they pulled the leads out after her last treatment, she danced her heart out to her favourite song and HIT that gong! It was finished! She had won..cancer had lost!!!!
She went in this past May, to get a CT scan and it came back clean! Praise the Lord! About three weeks ago, she had a pain in her abdomen…she went to emerge and they found a twist in her bowel. Through much prayer, it came loose and she could come home. Four days after she came home…the pain was back and more intense this time. She went back to emerge and they suspected a twist in her bowels again. Eight days, of horrible pain and with out any food going in or out. They decided to go in and see what was happening. It was then, that our family got another curveball…

There are tumors on her bowels. My faith was shaken…to see the hope vanish in my sister in an instant was devastating. All of us went through the process of emotions. We are all back on track knowing it happened once before…it can happen again…It WILL be beaten! The enemy will not win! Through Faith and Prayer! Saying all of this…

I want to share with you where my faith was with myself during that time. You see…watching my sister go through all of what she went through…and how horrible cancer really is. I was there, puffing away on cigarettes…I was willingly catching this curveball! I used “stress” as an excuse to puff away. I realized something a week ago… I sit here and I believe and have faith knowing that God is going to heal my sister of cancer….but I have no faith in believing He could deliver me from smoking? Where is my faith for myself? My sister did nothing to cause this cancer and I am smoking something that causes it…how ridiculous is that!

To think, “nah….it won’t happen to me?” How selfish!  My sister didn’t deserve ANY of this. I watched her go through this KNOWING, she wanted me to quit smoking…because she didn’t want me to get cancer, and I was doing it to myself!

I had been humbled…how am I any more resiliant than my sister who didn’t smoke? It could happen to me and I was helping the enemy take me out…I was destoying Gods temple!
My faith had been restored, in knowing God wanted to take my addiction from me. I give every urge to have a cigarette to Him…because HE is faithful and He is TRUE! Its a feeling to have a cigarette…and false sense of need, this is an open door for the enemy to attack you. Feelings are subject to change, give it to God and the enemy has NO ground to stand on! You are Gods child and Satan can’t have you!

Amy Gauvin pic with sis wedding
I am now smoke free!!! I can now stand in total agreement with my sister knowing that God is going to heal her! He did it once already….And yes,
He will do it again! I am so proud of her and encouraged by her everyday and I know she is the same for me 🙂 Ladies….together we stand in Faith knowing that everything happens for a reason and that our Heavenly Fathers Glory will always prevail! Amen sistas! Blessings, Peace, Love and Joy to you all ❤ xo
Until Next Time,

~Amy

UYM, {Beauty}, {Faith}, {Life}, {Love}

Welcome!

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Hello Wonderful Readers,

Welcome to Uniquely Yours Ministries! We are so thrilled this exciting launch day is finally here! 10 months ago, Kerrington Sweeney, Our Founder and Leadership of UYM set out on a journey with a dream, that this would all be a possibility and here we are today. God is so good!!

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  We have many incredible things planned for this ministry and look forward to having the opportunity of, pouring into each of your lives on a daily basis.

We each are called to live “Unique” set-apart lives from today’s bombarding society. Here at Uniquely Yours Ministries, we are dedicated to bringing Women the daily support, prayer connection, and encouragement they need, to continue Life’s journey. Providing a beacon of Hope for those who are struggling. Providing a place where friendships are born, community is built and inner healing takes place. A place where we each are reminded daily, to claim our positions on the throne, as Royal Daughter’s of an Ultimate Almighty King. 

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Creating Beauty, Stirring Faith, Living a set-apart Life, Learning to Love, and Restoring Worth in the women of our churches and communities. 

  Until Next Time,

~The UYM Team